因為naughty room 的用法其實係要事先共同訂立規則,係一家人包括小朋友都同意,而且係明白,而容易遵守的.
(For example, if you're naughty, then you've to stay inside the naughty room and be quiet for 5 minutes continuously)
用 naughty room 之前可以用 naughty chair,目的都係要隔離佢,令佢冷靜下來(其實亦同時讓家長冷靜一吓).
在naughty room 內不能生事,如果小朋友喊 & 狂拍門的話就要加時,繼續留在 naughty room 內.
I also don't understand why the child won't just go away! But I've tried out the method recently and it works. Here is my experience....
My daughter used to take long time to drink the milk. A week earlier, I started to make her stand at the door when she refused to drink milk. At first she cried and asked for help from Daddy. And getting no help from anyone, she agreed to drink milk and so I put her back on the chair. She drank for a while and started to play again. So I took her to the door again. This went for several times until she finished the milk. The same situation keeps on for about a week. And last night she took only 20min to finish the milk, without being punished by me.
My daughter is a bit timid and so maybe the method can work easily on her.