To save time, please don't mind if i reply in English.
Firstly, if BB have fix time table, they know what event will be next, they will be more comfortable that can sucessfully calm down their emotion
Secondly, keeping holding them is not a good method to give them the sense of security, which is develop through taking care of them / play with them but not just holding them 24 hours
Thirdly, all BB be trained, so long as your family is cooperated.
Thus,
1. You should fix the timetable of feeding and sleeping. For your reference, i give you my BB's timetable at his age of 1.5 month - 6 month
6:30, 10:30, 14:30, 18:30, 22:30 - milk time
23:00 - 6:30, 20:30-22:30 sleeping time (i don't know when he nap at day time cos I am not taking care of him at day time)
You should fix the schedule so that the BB fit your lifestyle, not you fit BB
2. Don't go to sleep soonly after feeding, nap at least after half hour finishing feeding to avold 嬰兒猝死症,
3. Do the same thing when you want them to sleep, eg, sing a song(the same song every time)--> go to bed--> blanket--> say "sleep la" ---> leave the room
Everytime the same procedures (BB really really loves routine, as the world is a mass in their point of view)
5. When you feed them, you should hold them, so that they have enough body contact with you
4. If you make sure they cry not because of "wet" / "cold"/ "hot" / "Hungry", just leave them cry for a while....in the first 1 or 2 days you try this, they cry like wanna to kill you, after they found that you will not hold them, they knows and "safe the energy" and go to sleep directly...... Actually, I trained my B at his age of his 4-month. 2 nights and 5 min each, then ...Good! He go to sleep on his own at the third night. My friend doing the same, and she spent 1 week.
5. Breast feeding BB should be completed within 30 min so that you can take enough rest to produce enough milk. Feeding them for 3 hours is not wise decision that make the BB sleep in your arms and at the same time you cannot produce enough quality milk.
If you find that you have no enough milk, please take more rest / have more fish soup / any other kind of method instead of just feeding BB.
Check this out
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/thread-2588308-1-1.html
A few other 0901 mamis do the same practice and found successfully leave the bb sleep on their own...but I cannot find the post now
原帖由 KT1028 於 10-1-26 13:33 發表
我個baby 都係飲人奶, now 4個月大, but 晚晚9:xx肚餓, 飲到11:xx成12點, 喊下喊下, 攪到晚晚1:xx am 我地倆公婆先有得瞓, 係o米o甘架..還是可以點訓練呢?