Agree, . I too had same thoughs as yours before but finally get over it. My friend said "Ai ~~~~ I believe you will have yick 鬱 both before and after having a baby" She also said "怕痛就用無痛啦" However the fact is I still have no baby so no wotty
Anyways, it's true that maybe you should consider to have baby later if you're not ready. Talk it with your honey. Tell him your worries , I believe he will understand it.