what yr dad concern is normal, imagine yr daughter have such decision
but if i were u, i love to be a full term housewife
as long as u wont regret what happen in future including blame from yr parents, go ahead!!
support u!
I think woman need a job , is to protect herself , totally agree w yr dad. Its not about money , but is ti kill up some of yr time , built up yr social status. Ofcos u can find a hea job
i\'m the same age as you and i\'ll be graduating soon as well. i have a stable boyfriend but we don\'t have plans to get married anytime soon.
i totally agree with your dad on getting a job and having some experience rather than becoming a \'full time wife\' at a young age. you should communicate with your fiance and let him know that\'s what you really want. if he really loves you and cares for your feelings he will understand.
There is not a age issue but your mind. If you think you are too young, then maybe you can consider to study more. After graduated a master degree, then you decide later. Doing nothing at home isnt a good idea!!
If you are just 21 years old,, I do suggest you get a job...
I agree with you dad,, somehow i guess he probably wants you to have the ability to make some income to support your own. Even the income is not high, but at lease you are making money. You can save up and prepare for your future. Don't forget there is still many years even after you get marry with you husband... Having some spare cash is always a good thing to me... You will never know what would happen next... just a protection for yourself and also is good to keep yourself updated!
you are way too young to be a housewife. I started being a housewife after giving birth to my son in age of 26. Sometimes I feel I haven't seen enough or achieved anything in my career yet. in your age you should explore more instead of getting yourself trapped in a marriage.
at least u should prove to him that you have the ability to.support yourself before being a full time housewife....i honestly think if a guy keeps supporting the family by himself..he will eventually look.down on the wife because she needs to rely on him in every way
I am 24 this years, I became a ftm around your age, but I do regret it very much, I wish I did work, now I start to worry whether can I get a good job in future, when I haven't been working as a full time before, plus don't have much experience. I agree with your dad, is good for you to go out to work rather to just staying at home doing nothing, even though you think you can do lots of different things to upgrade yourself, but in reality you probably will end up being lazier than you were when you were in uni because you have too much time now. Speaking from my own experience I will strongly recommend you to work even just a part time, else you might end up like me in a few years time start to worry about things which you probably don't 'have control of in future.
Totally agree with your dad, it's too young to become a ft housewife. I think if your husband-to-be really think at your side, he will support you to get a job rather than stay at home and wait him back from work everyday! Also, You can know more friends before being a mom and it also help you to get well prepare to become a mom too. The world is so big and worth to see......
thank u big sisters and those who pm-ed me. i read all your comments and start realizing that it probably does more pros than cons if i choose to work a bit in my early twenties. i feel shameful that i've underestimated the wisdom of my parents...
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Good girl :) wish you all the best
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