How old is your 46? You two don't have children yet? He only drives on weekend?
He definitely has been lucky since he got his license that he never encounters accidents, so he has an eagle mind.....some men are like this....they will never learn a lesson until they really have a lesson to learn...
One doesn't have to have interest or needs to have license on manual car in order to drive....on the contrary, one needs to have self-control and awareness on safety in order to drive and be a responsible driver for the concern of the themselves and others.
So many ppl only have license on auto car, they can drive safely and in a responsible manner. That's what we need on roads, we don't need 車神 on our roads....say for example, the 260 km motorbikes driver have been caught , he's 車神 with 車神 energized bike, but he doesn't have the awareness of road safety to others.....what a shame!
I agree with others......if you feel you're unsafe in his car, get off and leave him...you don't need to be harsh but act out your concern..and you don't want to see him learnt the lesson when he involves in fatal accident.