金鐘區上班一族媽咪∼入來傾傾啦∼ Part III
Birthday List
Baby豬媽咪(27 June).......淳茵 17 April 2003
Jamesmama 16 June).....James 4 May 1998
Emilymami (4 Oct)..........Emily 11 May 2003
LaLaMa (24 Nov)...............Jennie 14 May 1997
CheukYiuMame (19 Aug).CheukYiu 27 May 2003
Kwan (6 May).................Jasper 2 June 2003
Samsmama(28 Feb)....Sam 17 July 2003
嵐豬仔 (2 Aug)................ 豬腩肉 17 Aug 2001
Renee (10 Aug)...............皓皓 24 Aug 2003
tsuntsunbb (10 Aug).......Tsun Tsun 4 Sep 2002
SmallSmall (10 Mar)........Lok Yin 19 Sept 2002
Yatjeh (3 Sept)................Lucas 8 Oct 2003
Mandymfl (18 Jan)...........盈盈 1 Nov 2003
VVBaby (2 Dec)...............希希 11 Nov 2003
IrisCheng (8 Aug).............Ho Tsin 5 Sep 2002
Jenniferpl (29 Oct) .......... Rachel 22 Sep 2002
Maxnew (19 Aug)............Max 18 Dec 1996
艾菲 (8 Apr) ....................Tsz Chuen 11 Dec
金鐘區上班一族媽咪∼入來傾傾啦∼ Part II
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Reprimanding your child helps her understand why you dispprove of her behavior. It also shows that you respect your child's ability to understand your reason. The three parts of an effective reprimand for hitting, for example, include telling your child to stop ("Stop hitting!"), explaining why you dispprove ("Hitting hurts people"), and suggesting an acceptable alternative to hitting ("When you're angry, just leave the group.") If your child continues to be aggressive, repeat the reprimand and include a Time Out to reinforce your message.
[size=medium]Compliement proper eating habits
Anytime your child is not playing with her food at the table, tell her you like how well she's eating. Say, for example,"that's great the way your're using your fork for those peas," or, "Thanks for twisting that spaghetti around your fork as I shouwed you."
[size=medium]Make playing with food unappetizing
If your child breaks an eating ruld you've previously discussed, tell her what the consequences are, to prove to her that playing with food is unacceptable. For example, say,"I'm sorry that you stuck your hands into your mashed potatoes. Now dinner is over."
[size=medium]Ask whether your child is done when she starts playing with her food.
Don't immediately assume that your child is being devilish. Ask her why she's dissecting her meat loaf, for example, to give her a chance to explain herself (if she's verbal)
[管教]必須建立在母子間信任,關懷, 溫柔的基礎上, 至能達到良好的效果. 親情的溫暖比嚴格的管教更為重要.
"在人生道路上面對種種不同的困境時, 最困難不是要面對那個問題, 而是堅持一個信念: 向前看. 就算問題有多複雜都好, 只要你肯正面地面對, 一定可以克服. 當事情過去後, 回望整件事都是不外如是........................"
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