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發表於 10-3-19 12:10 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

我弟弟家工人姐姐尋晚同他講, 要番印尼2星期, 因家人過了身, 兩星期後她一定會回來, 她來了香港只10月, 一來到的時候態度已好招積, 我做家姐的已話過她一次, 開始放假後已識bargain要晏少少番, 識討價還價, 一些基本禮貌都無, 我細佬諗住工人照顧他囡囡掂, 又跟佢, 唔太過份都算, 點知昨晚無端端話要番去印尼,搞白事，細佬已諗去睇新工人，事到如今，如妳地會點做:

1/ 即抄佢, 賠一個月+機票+年假+$100 00 à
唔好處：無姐姐湊細佬囡囡，可能唔習慣, 超跟她, 同可能上了工人當，賠了一舊錢.

2/ 叫她比信, 當resign, 如即走的, 只比機票 + 年假 + $100 à
如她有心反野（唔係真係白事），她未必咁做.

3/ 叫她出信, 兩星期後唔番當遲職, 但這個月人工,機票唔出住 (馮8號出糧),要走自己比錢買機票, 真的唔番只通知入境處
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好處咪唔駛益她一個月＋機票＋年假＋＄１００，但怕她真係番來，可能會有了BB，又係煩.

請高人指點, thank you.

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akycheung

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發表於 10-3-19 15:59 |只看該作者

My ex-maid did it before, I ask her not to go or give me resign letter + 1 month salary and I will let her go. She decide to give me resign letter + 1 month salary, after she go, the financial company called for her loan. You prepare she will not come back and find another maid now.

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charmaine0301

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發表於 10-3-19 16:06 |只看該作者

我之前嗰個都係, 話屋企人有事, 要resign, 到佢走左就有好多追數信&電話...

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chaklongma

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發表於 10-3-19 17:19 |只看該作者

叫佢寫定resign letter 比你
佢唔返當佢自動辭職

air ticket $$, salary 佢返黎先比佢

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發表於 10-3-19 17:47 |只看該作者

原帖由 akycheung 於 10-3-19 15:59 發表
My ex-maid did it before, I ask her not to go or give me resign letter + 1 month salary and I will let her go. She decide to give me resign letter + 1 month salary, after she go, the financial compan ...

醒唔起, 可能真的借了財務, 咁佢一定會走, 和寫遲職啦.

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發表於 10-3-19 17:49 |只看該作者

原帖由 chaklongma 於 10-3-19 17:19 發表
叫佢寫定resign letter 比你
佢唔返當佢自動辭職

air ticket $$, salary 佢返黎先比佢

就係想她寫 resign letter, 唔出糧住, 走得咁開心.

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發表於 10-3-19 17:50 |只看該作者

原帖由 charmaine0301 於 10-3-19 16:06 發表
我之前嗰個都係, 話屋企人有事, 要resign, 到佢走左就有好多追數信&電話...

走得咁急, 真的唔方好野.

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原帖由 LILY媽咪 於 10-3-19 12:10 發表
我弟弟家工人姐姐尋晚同他講, 要番印尼2星期, 因家人過了身, 兩星期後她一定會回來, 她來了香港只10月, 一來到的時候態度已好招積, 我做家姐的已話過她一次, 開始放假後已識bargain要晏少少番, 識討價還價, 一些基本 ...

LILY媽咪：

我咁睇.....
如已冇嘢留戀, 應該選方案1/, 免得夜長夢多.

如都有少少想佢繼續做, 但「絕對」唔想佢依家放假, 就可以用方案2/大佢, 話攞唔到假睇小朋友, 一定要返去就俾通知或賠錢辭職. 要注意唔好主動叫佢早走, 因咁講佢可以掉番轉叫你補錢俾佢.

用方案3/即係想留佢, approve佢放假, 要留意一切可以照做, 唯獨是唔好「叫她出信, 兩星期後唔番當遲職」! 因為你要佢寫定辭職信 = 佢不是自願寫呢封信 = 你迫佢寫？重有, 放假前寫封咁嘅信俾僱主根本係唔reasonable, 邊有僱員放假前真係會同僱主講：「如果唔見我返就係唔返(辭職)啦！」係僱主都會追問：「吓, 咁即係點呀, 你一係依家就辭職, 唔好要我到時先知啦！」
若佢特登遲幾日返, 等你通知Immigration, 單方面終止合約先, 咁就有哂證據係你炒佢, 然後話你迫佢寫辭職信..... 雖然係假設, 但都唔係冇可能, 所以唔好為咗貪方便(佢唔返可以即刻去請工人), 擺自己上枱.

教仔心得：媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為，到底點解同點讚？
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1

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發表於 10-3-20 23:33 |只看該作者

lily mammy
my case is similar to you.
my phillippine maid asked me for 21 days holidays to back home, cos she had never meet her brother 9 yrs wor (her brother out-town to somewhere)... woow, 21 days impossible.

and we told that that impossible, only allow her to back for 1 week between easter holidays. and she promise that she must back wor.

i dunno if i trust her or not.. i m vy headache now. and we asked her few times,. and she said she must must back.

honestly her performance is fair, not quite vy good and not quite bad la.

i really dunno if i find a replacement or not..... most of the bk mammy suggest me to find a replacement....... but i not yet find a suitable one.

]原帖由 LILY媽咪 於 2010/3/19 12:10 發表

我弟弟家工人姐姐尋晚同他講, 要番印尼2星期, 因家人過了身, 兩星期後她一定會回來, 她來了香港只10月, 一來到的時候態度已好招積, 我做家姐的已話過她一次, 開始放假後已識bargain要晏少少番, 識討價還價, 一些基本 ... [/quote]

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發表於 10-3-22 11:46 |只看該作者

SandraLo,
多謝妳的advice.
她竟然肯寫封遲職信, 話做到17號, 我細佬唔想囡囡日夜周圍走, 給親人湊, 所以可能會留到嗰日, 亦揀了個新工人, 希望一齊順利.

原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-3-20 23:17 發表

LILY媽咪：

我咁睇.....
如已冇嘢留戀, 應該選方案1/, 免得夜長夢多.

如都有少少想佢繼續做, 但「絕對」唔想佢依家放假, 就可以用方案2/大佢, 話攞唔到假睇小朋友, 一定要返去就俾通知或賠錢辭職. 要注意唔好主動 ...

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發表於 10-3-22 11:49 |只看該作者

Little_cy,

21 days holdiays are too long. You better to find a replacement. Good Luck.

原帖由 Little_cy 於 10-3-20 23:33 發表
lily mammy
my case is similar to you.
my phillippine maid asked me for 21 days holidays to back home, cos she had never meet her brother 9 yrs wor (her brother out-town to somewhere)... woow, 21 days ...

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發表於 10-3-22 12:15 |只看該作者

Hi lily媽
21日當然係冇可能啦.
依加同佢講最多9日, 佢話book緊機位, wait list
我都吾知點好…. 問左佢好多次, 佢話佢一定會番

原帖由 LILY媽咪 於 2010/3/22 11:49 發表
Little_cy,

21 days holdiays are too long. You better to find a replacement. Good Luck.

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發表於 10-3-22 12:20 |只看該作者

Little-cy,

妳係full-time媽咪定在職, 如湊小朋友唔係問題, 工人係好的, 等她9日都唔係問題, 問題係怕她有bb番, 到時就要放她10個月.

咁妳會唔會hold住人工, 她自己出機票, 等她回來再計清楚.

原帖由 Little_cy 於 10-3-22 12:15 發表
Hi lily媽
21日當然係冇可能啦.
依加同佢講最多9日, 佢話book緊機位, wait list
我都吾知點好…. 問左佢好多次, 佢話佢一定會番

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發表於 10-3-22 13:24 |只看該作者

lily
i m working ma ar.
有 bb....死, 佢仲係single tim.
我講左我吾會比機票架, 佢自己出, 成$2000, 佢都捨得, 不過係waitg list

原帖由 LILY媽咪 於 2010/3/22 12:20 發表
Little-cy,

妳係full-time媽咪定在職, 如湊小朋友唔係問題, 工人係好的, 等她9日都唔係問題, 問題係怕她有bb番, 到時就要放她10個月.

咁妳會唔會hold住人工, 她自己出機票, 等她回來再計清楚.

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