i let my bun bun to wash the clothes with ours, but not the baby's. my point is, if you think she is dirty or with disease, how can you live with her ? how can you let her take care of your baby ? if washing machine can't clean the clothes, why we use it ? will you get sick because your husband is sick and you wash the clothes together ? i didn't request but she wash her underwear by hands.
totally agree with momama!! when my maid first came, i said it's ok for her to wash her daily clothes with us (excluding underwear), but she refused and every few days she'll use washing machine to wash her own clothes.
i think unless you won't use your maid to take care of bb or kids, otherwise you need to have confidence in their cleanliness. they are in super close contact with your bb everyday!!!!! much much closer than washing clothes in same washing machine lor