siu wing
sigh.... you missed a very good evening with us ar..... hahahaahaaaaa..... of course, we will meet again lah, but no need to pay.... okay.......
see if we could arrange a gathering with our european lan c9..... when she is back to Hong Kong?
hi all overseas mamas
I'm very happy to review all the pages of your msg. its very funny, i'm also a full time housewife living in Miyazaki, jp, here is not tokyo, so very boring. I wanna to know if there any mamas living in jp in this chat room?
I have a son, 2 years old , carrying 2nd boy now,will give birth on next Feb. Doctors here not recommend to deliver baby by C-section, but i really scare of natural birth again. 2 years ago, i gave birth to my first son, coz his head is too big(his weight is 3.8kg) so the doctor cut my 'mui mui' HAHA.
Talking about hubby, i have the same situations as those mamas oversea, my hubby seldom help me to raise up baby, i need to do houseworks, cooking, cleaning after left hospital. My mom in HK called me and reminded me not to touch water wor. I just answered her if not to touch water, who will help me. I always envy those friends living in HK, they have parents or maid to help them after delivering baby, but me... :-(
No la, i wont ask my mom comes to here again, i've asked her come here for twice, everytime stay 2 mths here. However, the 2nd time(this summer), she was not so willing to help me doing houseworks and look after bb, always just watched TV or go outside by hereself on foot. maybe she found bored or i hadnt give her $ la, you know, their generation is very 現實, golden phrase 'no money no talk'. HAHA..
In jp, kids below 3 can go to nursery, but if mother is a full-time housewife or just doing part-time job, their kids are not allowed to study full-time nursery, if we can sumit documents to show that our health is not good, we can ask for 14 days full-time nursery per month, so chisin.
Lucky, my friend told me there's a private kindergarten, they accept those unqualifed kids going to public nursery, but it takes time by bus from home to there, i also let him go. Everyday, he takes 2 hrs school bus to nursery 1 way(totally 4 hrs, go and back), its really a long trip, haha, but better that keep the little monkey at home, little selfish mama i'm..
jovababy
yeah. my hubby is a japanese, but he can speak english, so its not a problem in communications. I'm only 150cm height, but my baby was 3.8kg weight and 53cm height when born. He's really giant.
I totally agree with you, all men in the world are the same, always use excuses not to helping, he has lot of chances to join his friends gathering until mid-nite, but i just stay home, so poor.
You know jp women are behaviour like Ah4, so, even i told my mother-in-law about how hard my life is now, she just answer me all mamas should do like this.講比佢知都sai氣.